"Ko bila nak kahwin?"
"Ko bila nak dapat anak?"
"Ko bila nak masuk U?"
"Ko bila nak dapat kerja?"
Kawan saya pernah berkata, "Everything has its own perfect time with its wisdom"
"Semua perkara ada masanya yang tersendiri, dengan hikmahnya yang tersendiri"
Kita tak perlu nak tanya "ko bila lagi?"
Jika dia sudah berusaha, kita hargai usaha dia.
Tak perlu nak pressure lebih-lebih. Elakkan daripada menjadi penyebab orang lain sedih.
Jadilah penyebab orang jadi gembira. [Aiman Azlan]
"Ko bila nak dapat anak?"
"Ko bila nak masuk U?"
"Ko bila nak dapat kerja?"
Kawan saya pernah berkata, "Everything has its own perfect time with its wisdom"
"Semua perkara ada masanya yang tersendiri, dengan hikmahnya yang tersendiri"
Kita tak perlu nak tanya "ko bila lagi?"
Jika dia sudah berusaha, kita hargai usaha dia.
Tak perlu nak pressure lebih-lebih. Elakkan daripada menjadi penyebab orang lain sedih.
Jadilah penyebab orang jadi gembira. [Aiman Azlan]
Quite frankly, Im often faced in this situation. I guess everyone has been in that situation too. Why do people have to ask such questions? Ye, saja-saja je tanya just for fun. Especially when balik kampung for sure makcik-makcik rajin akan bertanya soalan wajib macam ni. Honestly, bila kawan kawan yg tanya kita macam okay je takde rasa apa sangat but if relatives yg tanya tu bunyi dia lain macam sikit. Sentap kot haha. Tidak ke diorang tahu rezeki, jodoh ajal maut semua dah ditetapkan sejak dari Luh Mahfuz? Everyone has their own rezeki yg Allah sendiri telah tetapkan cuma cepat atau lambat je.
So basically when people ask me "bila nak kahwin" I will say the most cliche answer like people normally do, "belum ada jodoh" or "lambat lagi". Actually takde sangat la orang nak tanya that kind of question to me bcs Im still studying kot. But Ive been asked by them with one of the questions above. To see some of my friends and cousins who've got what they wanted in life, they've got what they wish for and I was like yea Im still here sitting in the dark and couldnt even see what my future will brought me. But when I think back, I am so regret with what Ive said before. Why do I need to say that? Why do I need to say that Im sitting in the dark while the sun is always shining during the day and the moon is always shining in the night? Whyy? If the time could be turned back, I will never ask why.
It happened to me around September 2014 and I guess I shouldnt have to share that. Yea maybe about the upu result? Haha idk. But what can I say here is, the wisdom that Allah gave to me was simply superb. The timing was super perfect and I can feel it until now. At first, what always goes on my mind was always "why". People may not know what Ive went through bcs they werent in my shoes. But as for myself, Im incredibly happy with what has been given by Allah. A journey that may differ from my friends, but thats what has been ordained by Allah for me.
Life's journey is still long (If Allah wills) but I can already see what might come. I may get scared of what Allah has laid for me in my future, but for everything Allah has written for me, I have faith in Him. Who am I to question Allah when I know only Him has the power to all the things around me. Sooner or later, it will be worth it. Percayalah, Allah has a perfect timing for everything. Learn to wait on Him. Everything happens for a reason and it happen within its own perfect timing. So be patient.
P/s: I realized, Allah never made me feel sad and down. But the people around me that often makes me feel that way. For that, I distance myself away from those I dont need.
- AN
